Friday, July 14, 2006

Human traits I will no longer accept in a Friend

This past weekend I was unfortunate enough to suffer through a bad camping trip. I lost my keys, my wallet, and a few friendships. A few friends were quite intoxicated, and one, who was drinking heavily because his girlfriend broke up with him, threw a fit at me, saying extremely mean things, an physically harming me by throwing a beer bottle and a chair at me. All this because I said he shouldn't have another beer but water instead. A few things happened between myself and his ex as well, such as her calling me a baby because I wouldn't play strip poker, of all things. So it is enough to say that I had no fun on my weekend off, and am still quite upset.

But something else makes me even more upset. The ex girlfriend is still camping; She decided she would text message me telling me that what happened camping stays camping. So in other words, they want me to not tell anyone they were awful. I think thats stupid. If someone asked me why i had a crappy weekend, I'll tell them what happened. Maybe not every detail, but its mine to say. I don't need to be told like a little child what i should or shouldn't say.

This friend, the female, has time and time again proven she is unbelievably selfish. Everything to where we have dinner to what movie we watch has to be decided by her. She has to take all the attention when sick or feeling down. She NEVER listens when you talk about your problems, she'll talk right over you.

So this post is me now decreeing, finally, that I will no longer stand for friends that don't give a crap about anyone but themselves....to the curb with them all! I am sick of making plans and having them broken, I am sick of being emotionally available to someone, and in return get nothing back. I won't be the rug everyone can walk all over. I have taken those kinds of relationships too often.

SO...if you're a soul sucking selfish psycho....leave me alone.

And to all those of my friends that I know aren't the above, I love you and Cherish you!